We’re afraid of being called "intolerant" or "phobic."
"Not judging" has become, in our society, a completely permissive attitude, afraid to use sober discernment in the matter of right and wrong.
That is not what Jesus is saying here. The apostle Paul gave some further insight,
"Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." (Galatians 6:1)Those of you who are spiritual should gently lead the person who is trapped in sin back to the right path. You and I obey the law of Christ when we offer each other a helping hand in this way. How do we do this?
“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye" (Matthew 7:3-5)We not only need God’s wisdom in recognizing sin, we also need God’s compassion in order to truly help someone.
--> You and I can’t help someone else when we’re blind to our own problems and issues, and when we’re busy feeling superior, or dislike the other person.<-- The desire to correct needs to be transformed into the desire to help, encourage and restore.
Let the Holy Spirit bring to your mind some of the people you might be judging in your heart.
1) Put yourself in the place of the other person you are tending to judge
2) Give that person the benefit of the doubt
3) Try and see yourself from that person’s point of view
4) Ask God to remove any bit of dislike and superior attitude by flooding you with His agape love for that person
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